Barry Neil Kaufman
American psychotherapist, author
Every time we allow someone to move us with anger, we teach them to be angry.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
Happiness is a choice.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
A loud voice cannot compete with a clear voice, even if it's a whisper.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
Gratitude is one of the sweet shortcuts to finding peace of mind and happiness inside. No matter what is going on outside of us, there's always something we could be grateful for.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
Worrying about the future is like trying to eat the hole in a doughnut. It's munching on what isn't.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
All dreams appear impossible until somebody makes them happen.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
We would not have to forgive people if we didnt judge them in the first place.
- Barry Neil Kaufman
If we become uncomfortable in any given moment, we can look at a flower, a pebble in the street or the tire on our car and be grateful. We can gaze at a person in the distance or at a cloud in the sky and be appreciative. We can smile at a stranger, hug someone we know or tidy a disorganized shelf and be thankful for the opportunity. If we choose gratitude, we will be happy!
- Barry Neil Kaufman
The way we choose to see the world creates the world we see.
- Barry Neil Kaufman